The kiss that launched a thousand protests

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Sunday, September 3, 2023
By Namita Bhandare

The fallout over a forced kiss by Spanish Football Federation head Luis Rubiales on forward Jenni Hermoso has focused attention on sexism throughout the world with more women saying, enough. Read on...

     

The Big Story

The kiss that launched a thousand protests

Source:BBC

If you haven’t yet heard of Luis Rubiales, let me introduce you to the Spanish Football Federation chief who believes it is his right to scoop up women players, caveman style, when they play well on the field.

A man who grabs his crotch in a very male ‘f*** yeah’ moment when the women score a goal because, duh, they are playing for him aren’t they? A man with such minuscule understanding that he cannot comprehend why ‘idiots’ (his word) are angry that he grabbed forward Jenni Hermoso’s head and kissed her on the mouth in public on a stage celebrating her team’s win over England in the World Cup.

“Given the turmoil of what the players had been through, this was their moment,” Chloe Saltau, sports editor of The Melbourne Age told me over the phone. “It was a national triumph for Spain and a personal triumph for the players. And the president of the Spanish football federation made it about himself.”

In a belated apology, Rubiales claimed it was all heat-of-the-moment stuff that happened with consent (surely the two are a contradiction: if something is spontaneous, how do you obtain consent?) a claim Hermoso disputes. Either way, you need to question the older man’s sense of judgment and propriety.

Rubiales’s behaviour has invited worldwide condemnation. The Spanish women’s team has said it will not play until he goes. Striker Borja Iglesias has quit the team. The country’s prime minister said the apology was not enough; deputy prime minister added that the “impunity for macho actions is over”. Heck, even Rubiales's own uncle is on Team Hermoso.

Unless you’re Rubiales’s mother, the protests have only grown. Thousands marched in Madrid with banners declaring ‘Se Acabo’ (it’s over).

On Thursday, FIFA finally began disciplinary proceedings against Rubiales. At the time of writing, he has said he will not quit.

The times they are a-changin’

Women’s sport certainly seems to be having a moment in the sun.

Close to two million people watched the Women’s World Cup in Australia and New Zealand in the stadiums. Reuters reports that another two billion watched on TV and streaming devices. It generated $570 million in revenue, second only to the men’s World Cup in Qatar last December.

Cuba, a country with even a stronger macho culture than Spain, lifted a ban on women boxing with the creation of a national women’s team in December. All 10 Formula One teams have agreed to field a team in the all-women’s F1 Academy series from 2024.

Closer home, the inaugural Tata WPL had the highest viewership for any women’s cricket event with more than 50 million viewers in the first week and 10 million new viewers by the time the tournament ended.

There is talk of a women’s kabaddi league. And Hockey India is hosting the Women’s Asian Champions trophy.

Issues as sticky as pay parity are still a long way off from reality. But on Thursday, England joined India, New Zealand and South Africa in introducing equal pay for men’s and women’s teams in international cricket. The International Cricket Council, or ICC, have already announced equal prize money for men’s and women’s teams at the ICC events.

And, if only to prove a point, on Thursday, a women’s college volleyball match in Omaha, Nebraska broke the record for the highest-attended women’s sporting event in the world with 92,003 in the stands, breaking the previous record held by Real Madrid and Barcelona at the Champions League match last year.

Source: Olympics.com

Read Shrenik Avlani in Mint: Will 2023 be remembered as the year women’s sports went mainstream?

Finding a voice

But more than audiences, media time and pay parity, women athletes today have a voice.

In India, Olympic prize-winning women wrestlers took to the streets in an unprecedented public protest that led, finally, to the filing of a police charge-sheet against Wrestling Federation boss Brij Bhushan Sharan Singh.

Charged with sexual abuse, Singh is still a long way off from facing justice; his enormous political clout—he remains a BJP member of Parliament and is still to be censured by a single person in his party—makes this a somewhat lopsided battle.

So what does Rubiales’s behaviour tell us? Three things. The first, it tells us of the sexism and misogyny that lies so close to the surface of women’s sport. Even now, there remains a 22% gap between girls and boys who play team sport. Women are a minority in coaching. Across the roles of CEO, chair and performance director, just 23% are women.

Second—and this is why the incident resonates around the world with so many women—is the casual nature of assault; the tone-deafness; the defiance and the reluctance to believe women even when the evidence is iron-clad.

And the third point, the one worthy of celebration, is the emergence of a generation of women players, articulate, strong and unafraid. Across the pond, Megan Rapinoe, probably football’s finest advocate for why girls should play, called out Rubiales’s behaviour for showing “deep level of misogyny and sexism” in women’s football.

There’s a sisterhood on display and it transcends borders and team rivalries.

In an incredible gesture, England manager Sarina Wiegman who won Coach of the Year, dedicated her award to the Spanish team. “This team deserves to be celebrated and deserves to be listened to,” she said. And then she joined the applause.

Click video to watch

In Numbers

With 755 cases registered in FY 2023, India’s top publicly traded companies saw a 70% surge in sexual harassment complaints over the previous year.

Source: Mint analysis here.

The long(ish) read

Source: Womaning.Substack

Thank me later for introducing you to the marvellous Mahima Vashisht. Apart from her impressive credentials—UNICEF, World Bank, civil services, IIM (Bangalore)—she is the author of Womaning in India on Substack that highlights gender blind spots in everyday life or, in her words, her “literary mid-life crisis”.

In her latest issue, Mahima asks, “Do you get to wear what you want?” and examines how women’s choice of clothes, especially after marriage, is dictated by mothers-in-law and other family members who decide what is appropriate for women, from the way they cut their hair to the accessories they choose (or don’t). “The restrictions women face within the four walls of their homes” is suffocating, Mahima writes.

Read more here.

What’s making news

NRI mum loses custody of her kids to Australia. Tragedy follows

The tragic death by suicide of a 40-year-old NRI engineer from Australia, Priyadarshini Lingaraj Patil on Sunday in Karnataka’s Belagavi district once again focuses attention on the issue of foreign governments seizing custody of Indian children. Patil had lost custody of both her children, aged 17 and 13, to Australian authorities two years ago. In a note written before her death she blames the authorities as well as residents of a Sydney locality for harassing her.

According to The Hindu, the Australian government has apologized and officials in Sydney are reviewing the case to assess whether custody can be returned to the children’s father or grandparents.

The case brings to mind similarities with two-year-old Ariha Shah who was taken away from her parents by German authorities over allegations of child abuse.

Defining marriage

Every marriage need not be conducted in full public glare or solemnised in a particular manner. In fact, ruled the Supreme Court on Monday, there are many who might not want to make a public declaration of their marriage due to parental opposition or fear for their own safety. Underlining the importance of autonomy in choosing a partner, the apex court approved of a Tamil Nadu state law that allows “self-respect” marriages. Under this law, a couple just needs to accept each other to be their husband or wife in a language that both understand. They can also exchange garlands, rings or tie a thali to solemnise the union.

Elsewhere in the Delhi high court, an adult lesbian couple who had been forcibly separated by one of their parents were reunited, with the court saying that as adults they were free to live with whoever they wished.

And, finally, in a separate ruling, the Supreme Court said that children born of marriages that are invalid still have a right in their parents’ share in Hindu joint family property.

Field notes

(Source: HEALTHYWOMEN)

Do patients get better outcomes and fewer complications with female surgeons? Two recent studies say yes. The first looked at one million patients to find that those treated by a female surgeon were less likely to die or develop a major medical complication at 90 days or a year after surgery. The second looked at 150,509 patients operated on by 2,553 surgeons in Sweden to find female surgeons had significantly fewer surgical complications than male surgeons.

Female surgeons typically spent eight minutes more on an operation than male surgeons, indicating better attention and care. Patients with female surgeons were also less likely to require follow-up visits. The difference isn’t due to talent, reports The Guardian, but about the ability to listen to patients and choose appropriate care.

Around the world

(Source: BBC)

Out of Afghanistan, a heart-breaking story from BBC on how many of the roughly 100 women who had won scholarships to study abroad were stopped from flying out by the Taliban. The scholarships were announced in December last year after the Taliban banned women from university. Even those who were accompanied by a male guardian were stopped—some of them hauled off from inside the plane.

In an unrelated development further curbing women’s freedom, women are now banned from visiting the Band-e-Amir national park in Bamiyan province.

In a setback to gay rights, a 20-year-old man in Uganda has been charged with “aggravated homosexuality”, which under the country’s new anti-gay laws carries the maximum of a death sentence. The 20-year-old is the first person to be prosecuted for the offence under the law which was passed in May this year.

In Nigeria, police arrested over 60 people who have been charged with what authorities claim is a same-sex wedding. By law, anyone entering a same-sex marriage can be jailed for 14 years and those who witness such a ceremony face up to 10 years of jail time. The Canadian government is warning LGBTQ travellers to the US that they could be affected by a raft of recent laws that restrict the rights of transgender and other gay people. And in Lebanon, politicians, religious leaders and vigilante groups have stepped up a campaign against the LGBTQ community by targeting rainbows, school books, movies and drag shows in a country that has been relatively tolerant so far.

…And more good news

California moved a step closer to banning caste-based discrimination after a bill that adds caste as a protected category was cleared on Tuesday. It must pass a vote in the Senate before state governor Gavin Newsom signs it into law. The bill was first introduced by state senator Aisha Wahab.

        

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That’s it for this week. Do you have a tip or information on gender-related developments that you’d like to share? Write to me at: namita.bhandare@gmail.com.
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